He was the kind of handsome that got into my bones, that spoke to me of olden times before he’d said a word.

Bigorexia – the wave of young men damaging their bodies with steriods to gain big muscles – is founded on a misconception. If they are a guy who wants to attract gals, here’s the thing. I say this as a straight biological female. Women, beyond a sense of averageness, don’t care what their man looks like. They don’t. Once a guy is somewhat average other factors take over. They are looking for a great partner who would make a great father. It’s biologically hardwired. Women don’t chose mates based on looks. By all means, be healthy, do a sport or whatever makes you feel good… but a lot of women actually don’t like big muscles in real life. That’s what’s real.

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